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I need to figure out how to increase libido or figure out masturbation
questions. I am in a two year relationship with a loving, tender, and very special man. We moved in together this April and continue to grow as individuals and as a couple. I have never been in a healthier relationship.
I have reached a bump in the road. Recently he lost his job due to cutbacks. We saw it coming, so we talked about a plan for us to keep above water financially. The bump in the road is he is finding it difficult to land a job, due to a dip in the market.
This last month he's felt useless. We talk about his feelings, but lately I notice he is moody and distant. We have always had a very sexual and affectionate relationship, and though he still cuddles and kisses me, there has been very little sex drive for him.
He watches adult movies and I feel neglected. The adult movies are not out of control, but he says he doesn't feel sexy or good about himself. He finds me attractive, but then I notice he prefers to pleasure himself.
I expressed my worries to him very openly, and he simply said he does not watch adult movies as often as I think. I turn to you for advice because I feel sad and hurt, but know he is not in a space right now to hear my feelings because he is trying to deal with his own.
- Judith
Judith, your boyfriend feels the sexual tension all men feel, and the need for release. When he was bringing home a paycheck, he could turn to you. Now, not having a paycheck, he is turning to himself.
Don't focus on or intensify the symptoms caused by his unemployment. Don't make them the problem. He is not rejecting you sexually. He feels unworthy to approach you. Now is the time to support him in every way. Stop focusing on yourself. Don't add to his burdens.
He may need more training to get another job, or he may need to start over again at a lower level. None of which is easy. Trying to micromanage his biology won't help either of you. Helping him to get back on his feet will put you on the receiving end of his attention.
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