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Oral Sex (Cunnilingus) Question, Answers, Sex Advice, Information

Oral Sex Advice

I have a question about my girlfriend, who doesn't like oral sex.I thoroughly enjoy giving oral sex. My girlfriend however seems to think of giving and receiving as disgusting. Do you have any advice that I could give her to help her relax about it?

As far as oral sex goes, this is something that you two should talk about and try to figure out what her aversion is. Once you figure out the why, then you can probably get through it. One possibility is that she doesn't enjoy performing oral sex on you (not uncommon, especially with girls her age) and this makes her not want it from you, either because she'd feel pressured to give it back, or guilty when she doesn't. If this is the case, figure out why. If your thrusting gags her, then agree to remain motionless with her in control. If it's the flavor she doesn't like, try a flavored oil such as Wet Flavored Oil. It's also possible, as silly as this may seem to a guy, that she doesn't think she's good at it, and this fear of doing it poorly inhibits her from doing it at all.

Another possibility is that she feels that she's "dirty" down there. Again, this isn't uncommon, especially with younger women. You just have to keep reminding her that she isn't. Let her know that nothing about her is "dirty" to you. It doesn't matter if you've told her 1,000 times. It may be the 1,001st time that convinces her.

No matter what you figure out, never try to pressure her into anything. Once a woman has it in her mind that she's been pressured into something sexual, there's absolutely no chance that she'll come around and decide that she likes it.

—Abby

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Nina Hartley's Guide to Better Cunnilingus teaches oral sex techniques to use on a woman.

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If you don't like the taste of pre-cum, (Or even if you do) flavored oils are awesome. I think "Wet Oils" taste the best and my personal favorite is Pina Colada.

The Mini Tongue Vibrator is made to feel like a real tongue. It works well unless you really like the stubble (I don't!)

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