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Sexual Intercourse - Wet Spots during Sex
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About Sexual intercourse and sex wet spots... Apparently the biological term used by sexologists to describe semen leaking back out of the vagina after unprotected hetero sex is flowback. (I was watching sex week on the Discovery channel.) I am unclear as to whether this is a verb or a noun. Does flowback get on the sheets, or does smut flowback onto the sheets? Either way, I do not ever use this term :)
I usually describe sex-related fluids as smut. Thus, anything flowing back out of my vagina is smut to me. I can become smutty or covered in smut, get smut on the sheets, etc. If smut gets on the sheets I usually call it a wet spot, but sometimes I still call it smut. I use the words smut and unit to describe most sexual things.
Because neither sex with latex nor oral sex on me produce anything in the way of flowback or wet spots, I have always maintained that most of the flowback fluid is semen. However, as being aroused can result in my vagina producing enough fluid to make a wet spot on my underwear, it would make sense that some of the flowback fluid is from me. It smells like semen, but I don't think that female sex lubrication smells like very much.
To add to the not-as-yet cross-referenced scientific info about my vagina, flowback is supposed to result partly due to the physical force of gravity acting on fluids in the vagina, and partly due to the mass death of sperm encountering the acid pH and immune response of the vagina. Our bodies make much stronger immune responses to foreign cells of our own species than to cells of other species. There is work being done on a system of vaccination against sperm antigens that would make a woman permanently unimpregnable by her partner. Taking immunology classes is fun.
I don't know the proportion of dead to live sperm in human flowback. There is some relation between this figure and the proportion of sperm which are poor swimmers, deformed, or otherwise weak. Humans have more virile sperm than gorillas, but less virile sperm than chimpanzees. This is likely due to varying competitive forces: male gorillas have sexual monopolies over their harems, chimpanzees mate with everyone, and humans are in the middle—moderately polygamous. That had very little to do with my vagina but I thought it was interesting.
Further scientific trivia: if a woman has an orgasm within a few minutes before or after being ejaculated into, there is significantly less flowback. There is a theory about the evolutionary purpose of the female orgasm charmingly known as the "upsuck theory" that relates to this. (The other main theory on the topic is referred to as the "poleaxe theory" because it relates to the ability of orgasms to sedate a woman, so "upsuck" isn't all alone in the land of poor taste.)
The flowback fluid that I encounter ranges from clear to creamy coloured, sometimes clear with creamy bits, and is slimy and mucoid. It dries to white streaks, or to yellow stains if it is absorbed. If I am bleeding the blood will sometimes mix in to produce pink or orangish colours, and sometimes it will just swirl through without dissolving.
Usually the mixed fluids flow out of my vagina after my partner and I disengage and separate. If we don't stop and separate right after he ejaculates, some smut will often find its way out before we are through. If we stop but don't separate right away, the fluid will usually stay inside until we do part, at which point I am often reminded of images2 of corks.
Whenever it manages to flow out of my vagina, the smut usually gets into most of the crevices of my vulva and between the cheeks of my bum. Depending how much I move around, it will also get out onto my upper thighs. It does not always get on the sheets, especially if I am lying on my side after sex and the smut can't flow either way along the fairly continuous front to back bum/vulval crevice. If I sit up I can make sizable wet spots. Sometimes I sit on my beloved afterwards and get smut in his bellybutton or on his bum (to tease, not to be sexy). Sometimes we have smut fights.
Wet spots on the sheets are not pleasant to sleep in unless they grow right under me and stay warm so that I don't notice. Wet spots form most often in the middle of the bed, and my boy and I have a system of taking turns keeping them warm while each other gets up to pee or get a drink if we have to come back to bed to sleep. That way, no one has to lie in a clammy wet spot. If we make a wet spot in the middle of the day, we try to leave the covers off to let the spot dry. This measure mostly applies if the sheets are sweaty as well.
If I am trying not to make a wet spot on something (ie: couch, kitchen counter) I get up right after sex and pull on some underwear. This will soak the underwear. Actually, if I have to get dressed after sex for some reason and haven't let sufficient smut find its way out of my vagina, I have to be careful not to let fluids soak through my pants. I try not to sit anywhere until I've had a chance to go to the bathroom and wipe up a bit with toilet paper. Post-coital fluids can be fairly easily gotten rid of with a concerted bearing-down effort into tissue or the toilet. Incidentally, smut does not mix well with water, and will make aquatic spider web patterns in the toilet bowl.
Occasionally, flowback can be rather more active and dramatic. If for some reason air has been forced into my vagina during sex (see noises), various sex fluids can be expelled afterwards in a bit of a burp, instead of simply flowing. This doesn't always happen immediately, or at all. It is kind of funny when it does. Doing the bicycle right after making it is nearly guaranteed to produce this effect (if you are so inclined).
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