Both you and your partner take turns pretending like you are virgins. You take one night of the week and they can take the next one. Have your partner walk you through it and calm your "imaginary" fears by giving you step-by-step instructions. You can act shy and timid and keep pushing them away when they get to certain "bases" and it can be interesting to see how long you can pretend not to know a damn thing. I mean how many "experienced" people can just lie there when they are getting fucked royally?