You gotta love this one and it is a game of mind over matter. It also requires a hell of a lot of willpower. Without tying your partners hands or confining them in any way, tell them that they can not touch you no matter what you do to them. That means you mean can't touch a woman if she does a lap dance or even if she sucks your dick. Same goes for the women. No touching whatsoever or you will have to pay the penalty. My suggested penalty is that you must perform oral sex on your partner for twelve hours straight if you fuck up.