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(Contributed by Amy Guven, author of
Amy's
Tutorial - A complete guide to reshaping your womanhood, with better sex
tips and techniques.)
Sexual health experts are most often asked about premature ejaculation... and female orgasm troubles.
When you read this you may say: It's normal, if man is coming off quickly, such as with premature ejaculation, woman couldn't have an orgasm! But if you really think for a few seconds, surprisingly, you won't see any relation between
these two events. Because, a man if he is not a boor, will prepare his woman to reach her orgasm before his ejaculation.
The other highly popular question is about penis size! After all that porn
movies many people are really confused. How and where to find such a prominent
penis organ? What is the average penis size?
How thick and long can be the biggest? How small is acceptable for lovemaking?
Every man's genital is different as his finger print and the role of the penis
size in a happy and successful sexual relationship is not such important. At
least you don't have to be such stupid to pay sack full money to programs, drugs
or advice for making it bigger! Even with a huge organ a man's chance is very
limited to make her achieve an orgasm if he is not a good lover and doesn't know
proper sex techniques, most probably he will cause pain instead of pleasure.
Even a man who has a miniscule dick may be a perfect lover! The only way is to
learn how to make better love, how to be a better partner, instead of being
paranoiacly distressed. This is normal and this is your body, love it and try to
use it more creatively and with more love. French kiss and caress every part of your
partner's body for long time, arouse her enough, and go down and give her a nice
cunnilingus experience... until she reaches the climax.
Believe me, every woman loves and prefers such a talented lover in the place of
a big dick entering a few times into your vagina before spurting out and then
sleeping in his side as nothing happened! Naturally!
Having a small organ is not a guilt, a crime, if he knows his body and has
developed many better solutions he is absolutely a CLEVER man and a perfect
lover!
In regard to premature ejaculations... This, also, is not a crime and if the man has
not an organic disorder, may be corrected with some effort. But many men,
instead of paying attention to their situation, act like premature ejaculation
doesn't make any difference in their sex life! Which may be true!
Actually you may consider the natural disharmony between two genders. Men, by
their nature, want to thrust into a hole when aroused and squirt in, that's all!
But woman needs a prior preparation, a foreplay of at least 10-15 minutes to be
concentrated and ready for insertion.
One woman likes this position, another may choose that position, many women
request clitoris stimulation besides men's thrusting... Many fatiguing services
asked from men! And furthermore, if a serious and passionate relationship
doesn't exist between partners, men are really exhausted in the bed. Is this a
natural error, an innate lack of harmony that exists between men and women?
Let see some different type of premature ejaculation types:
Type A: The worst. He doesn't even know he has a problem with premature ejaculation. When he
likes, he takes the woman under him and ejaculates. He doesn't care anything
else! For the woman's orgasm? What is that? He hasn't heard anything about
woman's orgasm!
Type B: He knows about woman's orgasm but act like he doesn't know. Same
of the Type A, he pulls the woman under and he has his premature ejaculation... the only difference,
if by mistake or pain, woman makes a weak sound like "ah" he will suppose she
reached an orgasm but for his comfort, he will never ask her the truth!
Type C: He knows his premature ejaculation problem exists, he is sad and wants to visit a doctor but
he is shamed or can't find the time to go! As a foreplay he kiss and caress her
a little but he can't wait and comes off. Sometimes he can't even find times to
thrust his dick into her. He is sad but life goes on!
Type D: He is aware of his premature ejaculation disorder but he also knows
his partner's orgasm right! So, he will kiss and caress her at great length,
give her a great oral sex and bring her to an orgasm. Then start to make love
for himself and he comes off. Because his partner reached orgasm before his
quick ejaculation there is no trouble. Partners are relaxed and happy!
That means, if a man is understanding and clever the premature ejaculation is not an
important obstacle on the way of a happy sexual relationship. Man may visit a
doctor and try to find the main reason behind this sexual health disorder and get a treatment
which is totally normal, but meantime he is kind and not selfish, gives her
ultimate pleasures to reach her orgasm.
An absolutely good sex for a woman is a normal dick size, a foreplay at length,
long kisses and caresses, staying inside her long enough with many thrusting,
knowing her "best sex positions" and giving her the best pleasures... not
insisting on what he wants, but understanding her and giving her what she needs
to get her climax.
Please remember that if she has reached to one orgasm in her entire life, she
knows the best position for her, and an intelligent man never insists on a new
position which may cause a lack of concentration, he will follow her
orientations.
Finally, what is the woman's responsibility in creating a harmonious sexual
relationship? Women must talk and describe what they want clearly. Of course
talking to the boors will not produce a positive result but intelligent men may
understand your needs. Do not imitate orgasm or do not keep silent and sleep...
talk to your lovers and kindly explain your desires, if not you will lose your
sexual desires and even you won't be able to masturbate and get orgasm by
yourself in the future!
About the Author:
Amy Guven is an author of famous eBook
"Amy's Tutorial - Reshape your Womanhood" about better sex tips and techniques
to improve sexual talents and maximize happiness in relationships. Being highly
successful in its goal of making people sexually confident and happy, Amy's Tutorial has been sold thousands of copies till today. Please read
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